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why do men think there’s this elite “top 15-20%” like… yes the average woman probably only finds 1 or 2 out of 10 men physically attractive but its not always the same 2/10
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Anonymous 14w

like my friends and i are all picky when it comes to guys we find attractive. but our taste does not overlap AT ALL.

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Anonymous 14w

There is such thing as conventionally attractive men, just as women, but I think as a dude the 15-20% they’re referring to are just the dudes constantly shooting their shot and are conventionally attractive. Ugly to average looking dudes can still get in the 20-40% threshold by doing the same thing.

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Anonymous 14w

Also it’s so easily disproven by simply looking around you. 60-80% of men get married in their lifetimes. Men who are not conventionally attractive AT ALL find women who want to date and marry them. Usually men who want to get married and don’t have other issues preventing them from finding a woman willing to date them. The whole “I’m mad at women for never picking me cause I’m not a ‘chad’ and I’m not going to work on myself at all cause it’s their fault I’m lonely” attitude surely doesn’t help

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

my best friend thinks the guys i like are ugly and i think the guys she likes are ugly. women are not a hive mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

I, on the other hand, am anxious about approaching and don’t. Therefore I get no girls.

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