
An alcoholic person says you drink too much and a sober person says you drink too much, so you think those two opinions are weighted the same? A person who sees u only on weekends at the bar vs a person u live with every day and they both say u drink too much, do u think those are weighted the same?
People follow patterns. You act the same way a lot of guys without great social skills act. You share similar opinions, you’re reactive and erratic, you clearly get hurt by the things people say but try to act like you don’t. If a guy who doesn’t see me very much calls me an alcoholic, I’d definitely wonder why he said that. Clearly he sees something that I don’t. It doesn’t automatically make him right but it does mean that I’m missing something
No, you clearly show signs of Asperger’s. Maybe people like in person but you do have problems socializing, which is evident by your posts. And it’s okay to not know everything about yourself. Nobody with an alcohol problem realizes by themselves. If they did, it wouldn’t be a problem