I don't engage with losers because it's too easy for a man to be a rapist when they have nothing going for them in life. I like my men a little scared and verbally affirming consent and not asking twice if I or my body language says no to something
After being with men, seeing someone respect a boundary makes me feel so much happier than it should. I say no and get “I’m glad you’re setting boundaries and taking care of yourself”, and I’m just amazed. Never dating men again.