Anonymous #1 1d

😭😭😭😭

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Anonymous #2 1d

I did, this summer I finally had a gay friend and it made it worse because whenever we were out she was saying let’s eat, and at the beach she didn’t have a proper shape and mast everywhere so I hat to stop seeing her because I felt very bad each time I was hanging out with her

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Anonymous OP 1d

a proper shape and mast?

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Anonymous OP 1d

*fat friend

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Anonymous #2 1d

Idk why my keyboard is autocorrecting 💀 like I hate the way their body is shaped and there are meat everywhere that you can’t see their shape

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Anonymous OP 1d

maybe you just felt like your problem was getting worse bc you were confronting it instead of avoiding it? idk, i’d say it’s still worth it to keep interacting w fat people despite how much worse you may feel and at the same time as that start working through your own relationship to your body and food, bc it sounds really unhealthy if you’re projecting it onto other human beings

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Anonymous OP 1d

sorry i can’t offer advice for how to improve your body image and relationship to food though, that’s outside my own experience

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Anonymous OP 1d

one last thing though: i’m autistic and sometimes i struggle w being apathetic to the people around me, but something that helps stir up my empathy is to imagine them going through their morning routine and imagining the thought they put into their outfits and makeup and them enjoying breakfast or some music in the morning. even if it’s fiction, the specificity and remembering their inTeriority (not inFeriority!) helps me humanize the people around me

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Anonymous #2 1d

* “them” goes for all sorts of strangers and acquaintances, not just fat strangers and acquaintances

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Anonymous #2 1d

Thank you, these are good advices. I’m healthy, I’m not those ed people that are bone thin, idk maybe it’s because growing up my family always shamed fat people and thats the reason

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