
I can’t say why he’s “only allowing it”. I’m just addressing ppl saying he wouldn’t do it roles reversed. I think that’s fair of him. If you don’t want to that’s definitely fine as well ! I just think talking to your partner is the most important thing in relationships. I also don’t think going 5/10/20 years together with someone and never wanting the touch of someone else is realistic. You should be allowed to voice the complexities around that in a safe environment.