
You can’t be avoidant lol. If you know what’s wrong you just say something about it like today I was waxing my armpits and she wanted to help me. She put it on way too hot and it burned me. Not a single sorry or anything straight to the “I can’t do anything right god I’m a horrible mother” and I was ripping it off and she said “seems like you’re having a hard time” in a snarky way. I said you know what I’m tired of this shit you always play the victim.