
this isn’t okay. don’t stay in a relationship where you both are constantly in this secret battle of who could hypothetically gain more attention. if he has wondering eyes just leave him. don’t try to retaliate and be childish to prove a point. you’re gonna lose in the end every single time
even if you dont, theres no use to pretend its abnormal or even inherently a bad thing to find people attractive whilst in a relationship; that in no way means you need to act on it or that you necessarily find them as attractive as your partner (which, even then, is not inherently bad so long as you dont act upon it)
PICK ME ASS COMMENT SECTION, is this not a confession page for yall to be acting hella sensistive. the fact of the matter is this girl is exposing such a true reality behind relationships and it flew past yalls head and complete shifted the narrrative to blame the girl, as always, read a book, maybe get into a real relationship maybe yall will understand next time.