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When I have kids, I’d choose them over my husband.
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Anonymous 3w

Ngl as a dude I’d expect u too

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Anonymous 3w

As a husband I would choose my kids over my wife

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Anonymous 3w

Ideally, you marry someone who doesn’t make you choose

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Anonymous 3w

That's obvious lol

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah I got that. But your husband is why you have the kids. So I’m saying you gotta treat the kids the best way. Because the reality is to have the best for your kids you need mom and dad or someone to fill those roles

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Anonymous 3w

You could. But the moment you treat your kids badly, you’ve lost all respect forever

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I don’t understand what you’re trying to say. Can you elaborate?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

If you’re mean to the kids or not doing every single thing the best mom would do. Or atleast the effort for that. I’d be suspicious

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Kids are hard. Saying you’d choose your husband over kids you gotta back up that claim with the best effort

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Oh I was saying I’d choose my kids over my husband….

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I see but that isn’t the reality of a lot of family homes. If my husband is toxic or has picked up a bad habit and cannot kick it for his family’s sake. No matter how much I love him, I love my kids more and I will remove them from the situation.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

We’re assuming the husband isn’t toxic. If he was you’d leave him. As you’d choose your kids anyways

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Not all men have a bad habit that’s a strain on the family

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I’m not saying that, I made a scenario. I don’t understand why the first argument for most is to assume I’m speaking of ALL when I speaking of ONE scenario.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You’re saying kids over husband I’m saying there’s a lot to consider with a father or step father in a kids life. So it’s not as black and white as what you depict

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Uhm… I don’t need a man to help me raise my kids. I wouldn’t be searching for a replacement. If a man were to step up that would be different.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

This is why so many families are dysfunctional….

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