Ask them why and what they want to look like and like actually give a real compliment on what you like (like oh but I love the way those jeans fit you yk) (it’s def hard in my opinion as a stick person lol bc you don’t want to hurt someone but being scared can make them feel like you don’t care/are mean one of my friends got drunk one time and told me I make her feel bad bc I always change the subject when we talked about body types)