every person i've been with has been codependent, so i kind of associate relationships with being smothered & losing my freedom
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Anonymous2w
me asking for personal time or space has resulted in them getting mad/offended/ hurt EVERY single time. it seems like the norm is to be hella attached so i just don't bother with dating anymore
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Anonymous2w
yeah 🙁 its happened enough times in different relationships that i genuinely feel like the average person is almost guaranteed to have attachment issues/ not be emotionally mature
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Anonymous#42w
One time in high school I had a guy (not even dating yet, just met him) ask me what I was doing at home that made it so that I couldn't respond to his texts. I would take like 2 hours sometimes because I was busy with other things 😭 leave me alone wtf
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Anonymous#42w
exactly. ppl will feel entitled to all of your time and energy and i hate it🤮🤮