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Confessions 14h
My bf and I have had a lot of hard conversations lately, any tips on how to decompress? Everything is solved and spoken about, just need time to process ig
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Anonymous 14h

Yeah ur nervous system is still in survival mode afterwards sometimes introducing some physical touch after helps a lot

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Anonymous 14h

do you want couples tips on decompressing or stuff that you would do alone to decompress

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

We’re long distance :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

He seems fine rn but I guess both I’ll take anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

i have a relationship rule where neither of us walk away angry or upset. so we’ll do an activity that doesn’t require a lot of talking like watching a movie / reading next to each other on the couch. still close but not doing anything that could reopen an argument or difficult convo.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

That sounds amazing but we’re long distance :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

ohh. maybe be on facetime and just continue what you’re doing independently but yall are still just one word away from talking

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

He’s had work all day today, the convo happened last night

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h
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