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Sometimes I can’t hang around my friend because her beauty makes me extremely insecure. I’m trying to be better but it always lingers in the back of my head how much prettier she is than me.
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Anonymous 4w

This is so hard to talk abt without feeling dumb or like a bad person but I feel you, I love my friend but I envy her so much. I don’t even have pics of us because they just make me sad to see us side by side. Every person I’ve had a crush on has been interested in her instead and it hurts. I feel like she’s the girl in our friendship and I’m the weird ugly sidekick

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Anonymous 4w

I get that. I’ve had to unfollow some influencers bc I feel the same way. I also feel this way when I hang around my partner’s female friends and relatives. They’re all stunning and I always feel so out of place around them.

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Anonymous 4w

Felt that

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Anonymous 4w

You are beautiful. The only thing wrong with you is your mindset. How boring would the world be if everyone was a perfect 10? Think about your positive attributes, focus on what you like, no, what you LOVE about yourself, and use those to your advantage. If you take what comes natural to you and make that the best you that you can be, I guarantee people will be drawn to you. Decent people who don’t see you as a frat house freebie.

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Anonymous 4w

Yikes you sound like my best friend. She barely hangs out with me anymore & has admitted to resenting me for my looks. It’s hard to deal with from the other side, a friend treating you differently over something you can’t control.

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Anonymous 4w

Skill issue

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Anonymous 4w

are you lebanese

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Nuh uh

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Took the words right out of my mouth 🫂

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Anonymous replying to -> d1ld0shwagg1ns 4w

Smile as much as you can, so people view you as approachable, and beautiful things will unfold for you. Laugh and enjoy life. People are drawn to that. And don’t let the world make you forget how fucking beautiful you really are, inside and out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Same haha. I once got drunk with my bestie and we invited over the guy I’d been going steady with for 6 months to have a threesome. He only focused on her the entire time and I ended up just lying there naked while they fucked. Hurt so bad. I thought any day he was gonna make our relationship official, but instead, he ended up officially dating HER like a week later.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Oh dude 😭 were u planning to fuck him together or it just happened? Either way I honestly wouldn’t even be able to talk to her after that, I’m sorry

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

That’s more than understandable and I feel for you, but I do feel like it’s even harder to feel less than other people. Idk I’m sure it’s very upsetting to be in your position but as someone who has felt the way she does I also know how painful and isolating it is, and how much self hatred a person has to have to get to that point

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

In my experience people who feel like this usually end up subconsciously tearing you down too so you feel just as insecure as them. they’re in no way victims especially if they don’t do anything to improve their self image.

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