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every guy i want, either gives me little to no interest or just wants my body. meanwhile the guys that want me, i cannot reciprocate that same energy bc i do not want them nor am i attracted to them. what’s going on
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Anonymous 6w

I don’t have much to say except that, the one time a girl approached me and gave me her number, I thought it was the hottest thing ever and we ended up having an incredible 10 hour date. If you see someone you’re interested in, approach them! The guys who don’t find it attractive probably aren’t a good fit for you anyways

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Anonymous 6w

do guys even want us to make the first move? i’ve seen plenty of guys say it’s unattractive so that might be my problem. i’ll just have to wait until the guys i want make the first move

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

great advice thanks!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Dawg yes of course. Literally just ignore them they are 100% in the minority

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Anonymous replying to -> perry_theplatypus 6w

well pardon me madam

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I’m just sayin, as a dude myself, there have been so many times when a girl I liked back in school has told me she had a crush on me at the same time and never said anything. So much better to just say something

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Anonymous replying to -> perry_theplatypus 6w

getting rejected by a guy is my biggest fear. u never know if they’re gonna be chill about it or mske it a huge thing. i’ve seen plenty of guys make it a huge thing including my own friends. so i never bother tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> perry_theplatypus 6w

i’m totally ok w never knowing lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

That’s honestly so fair. But at the same time, it goes both ways. Like I’m terrified of getting rejected too dawg. Cause you never know how they’re gonna react. It’s a huge risk. But at the same time if they blow up and make a huge deal out of it, they prolly weren’t worth keeping around in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> perry_theplatypus 6w

very very fair. who knew perry was chill like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Hey, I do my best to be as chill as possible. Just helpin out where I can

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Anonymous replying to -> perry_theplatypus 6w

love that

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