ok hear me out, if he’s driving to visit you then it’s the same commute (28 mins there and back) so obviously 🚩🚩 but if he has “get [you] and take [you] back” that means he has to drive there, back, there, and back which is like ~2 hours of driving depending on where you go i’d try to find a compromise, maybe meet somewhere that’s close to both of you? if i misread just ignore this

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Well your value seems to be less than a half a tank of gas ⛽️

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Depends on the reason why

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My bf and I make a 2 hour commute, bro is just making excuses.

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Red flag

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I used to drive 2 hours to see my gf at the time multiple times a week and all we’d do is cuddle (she broke up with me a couple months into it)

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I’m with #6. If he’s hanging at your place that’s one thing. If he’s getting you, taking you to his place, taking you back home, and returning to his place that’s 2 hours of travel instead of 1. To me that’s not a red flag because it’s half as efficient. At worst it’s just a lack of extraordinary commitment. I’d say it’s a red flag if he always makes you drive to him and doesn’t often come to you.

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