Anonymous #1 21h

What if I do enlist and just not make it through the full process so it’s not as fabricated

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Anonymous #4 21h

What if they say no and don’t take it seriously or well

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Anonymous OP 21h

Wdym say no?? You don’t need permission to end a relationship

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Anonymous OP 21h

If they don’t take it seriously they will figure it out, if they don’t take it well they will figure it out. They existed before you knew them, they can continue to exist

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Anonymous #4 21h

What if they don’t allow it and act crazy about it

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Anonymous OP 21h

Again, they can’t not allow it, you don’t need their permission

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Anonymous OP 21h

If they act crazy then its an even better reason to give yourself space

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Anonymous #4 21h

Plan b is to just move without saying anything

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Anonymous OP 21h

You sound like a horrible person no offense

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Anonymous OP 21h

ARE YOU STUPID MY GOD GROW A PAIR AND JUST BREAK UP NO ONE FUCKING HAS CONTROL OVER YOU THIS IS AMAERICA NOT AFGHANISTAN MY GODDDDD USE YOUR MF HEAD

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Anonymous #6 20h

I don’t wanna be close by if they tweak out and lose it, cause there’s a good chance they’re not taking it well and might lash out

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Anonymous #4 20h

That’s fine

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Anonymous OP 20h

If you genuinely think they might like hit/injure you then you can do it over the phone, still don’t lie about it, itll only put you in more trouble. Definitely do not just move away and ghost, they may genuinely think you died and start searching for you. Causing them more pain will only make them more upset at you

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Anonymous #4 20h

I could move and then call and end it, I’ll take being a bad person over being in danger

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Anonymous OP 20h

Call them before you move. Im sorry that this person is violent but especially in this case it is not smart to upset this person more.

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Anonymous OP 20h

Get a gun? A taser? Pepper spray? A machete? A pitbull? So many resources.

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Anonymous OP 20h

Or please tell the police and/or your family and friends

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Anonymous #4 20h

Police will probably do nothing and she’ll just tweak more if she has to talk to them

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Anonymous OP 20h

Thats why i included friends and family but if she begins to stalk you then you could get them involved

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Anonymous #4 19h

I’ll figure my way out of this somehow with the safest route in case she snaps

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Anonymous #6 18h

It’s not a good look for me to get any of those things in this situation

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Anonymous OP 18h

I have your genuine best interest in mind when i say don’t do anything stupid that could justify her lashing out if you are already scared of her cuz if someone lied about enlisting or told me they moved while we were dating id freak regardless of mental state. Dont put yourself in danger

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Anonymous OP 18h

Bring a friend if you really think she will attack you, she will be much less likely to even consider it

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Anonymous #4 18h

I’ll probably move after the breakup just for my own peace of mind

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Anonymous OP 18h

Makes sense. And as much as confrontation is not easy and can be incredibly scary i hope you can see how avoiding this conversation would only put you into a worse position. I genuinely hope that everything goes okay and you can stay safe

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Anonymous #4 8h

I mean if I go far away and do it I’ll be guaranteed safe but I’ll do it in a public place in person and hope she doesn’t do anything insane

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