Yall how do I know if the older man I’m seeing just wants me as a ego booster or if he actually wants something real. He continuously says he wants something real I’m just nervous. He’s also adamant about not wasting each others times.
Easy. Have sex with him. If he remains just as enthusiastic about moving forward and having something real and keeps doing new things to impress you and win you over, then it was never an act and he wanted more than that