Anonymous #1 6d

They r roommates the chores r prolly divided or they take turns. She shouldn’t have to babysit him to make sure the house is clean.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Chores weren’t even discussed at that point, everyone just moved into living. Complaining somebody doesn’t automatically conform to your style of life because that’s the way you’re raised is peak entitlement and low IQ intelligence. Just open your mouth and speak.

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Anonymous #1 6d

If chores weren’t discussed yet, that’s exactly why both people should use common sense in the meantime. Noticing a full trash can and taking it out isn’t a ‘style of life’. it’s basic shared living. Communication matters but so does personal initiative. It’s not entitlement to expect another adult to act like one.

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Anonymous OP 6d

Common sense is not the same as “he hasn’t taken out the trash and only he should because hes a man”. Thats dumb and preceeds on expectations nobody knows about. The other female roommate did but it just bothered her he hadn’t. In reality both those people were messy roommates but the point still stands that if you want shit done just say it

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Anonymous #1 6d

Well now ur just adding shit to ur story if she actually said that you’d be posting that in the first place not about how women don’t communicate

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Anonymous OP 6d

I said some women not all, and my point still stands that she sucks at communicating because thats a 5 min convo at max. She brought up the messy part later and the trash stuff was after i think around the first week or soo

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