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I know I have to leave my partner because i have lost feelings but he is genuinely a good person going through a hard time but I cant keep doing this repetitive cycle and him not getting help
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Anonymous 1d

protect ur peace. it’s a little callous but if he’s a sinking ship there’s no point in both of yall going down.

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Anonymous 1d

Its breaking my heart because I do genuinely care and I am not willing to continue being miserable with him… I want to live life and he says hes always so slow to doing things and people always leave right as he is “changing” but hes “changed” so many times and just keeps going back…

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Anonymous 1d

As someone who has had to do this, just have an honest conversation about it. It sucks and it will never not suck, but that’s just how it is. Then, even if you want to be friends more than anything else, you need to go no contact. It is going to hurt him, and he’s not going to want to (in my experience) but it will help him in the long run. Even if he denies it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

This is genuinely one of the hardest breakups I have had to deal with, A huge part of me doesnt want to let go but holding on is like staying in a burning building hoping to not die… Its horrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Would it be okay if I messaged and asked for some advice? I know what I need to do im struggling with a few other things

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