Anonymous #1 4d

Yes we’re both slim... Why does that matter??

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Anonymous OP 4d

It matters. Because he might not be choosing just based on hair color. Could be other factors

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Anonymous #1 4d

You’re weird af

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Anonymous OP 4d

It’s weird not to choose based off other factors?

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Anonymous #2 4d

Asking if we’re slim is very odd.. you guys don’t know me or the relationship we had.

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Anonymous #3 4d

Exactly, like if the roles were reversed we wouldn’t be having this thread rn

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Anonymous #3 4d

It’s giving “I am the blonde pick me”

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Anonymous #3 4d

a lot of you don’t understand the social layers to this and it’s not just a preference

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Saying this to someone random on the internet is crazy when you have no idea what someone is going through. Your words hurt and have an impact, I am already hating myself and feeling ready to leave. Please choose to be kinder even though it’s anonymous.

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Anonymous yellow_pie08 4d

Seriously tho fuck him and the blonde ho. DM me

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Okay? Good for you. Posting your whole family on a random 19 year old girls yikyak just to make her feel shitty. Crazy.

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I didn’t want to have a conversation with you. I was venting, can people do that anymore like damn.

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Regardless it’s still weird and unnecessary to post a picture of your family like we do not care

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Anonymous lightbluehater 4d

As much as I feel bad for the OP, ol dude was being mature this whole time, you can’t bash him for offering advice. You posted on a thread, you’re doing this for other people to give their own feedback regardless of if the responders are wrong or right. The internet is NOT the place to vent if you don’t want someone to reply.

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Bro you got way too much time on your hands. Hangout with your family or something.

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Anonymous #17 4d

As a dirty blonde white man, I second this. Just gotta let ts ride out, somebody will want you.

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Anonymous #4 4d

Praise for the dirty blondes best of both worlds, (im bias because my man is a dirty blonde).

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it quite literally is and is a common thing, there’s a mitski song about this 😭

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Anonymous #17 4d

😂😂 much love, it’s appreciated. I was blessed with great genetics. Curly dirty blonde hair, blue/green/brown eyes, good smile and a proportionate face. I feel overpowered, my downside is that I’m not over 5’9 but my personality makes up for it

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well said

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Anonymous #4 4d

We are all the same height lying down.

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Anonymous OP 4d

Dude was just giving advice and his thoughts and was actually being nice you don't gotta bash him just because you're jealous of his family. Don't post about your life on the internet if you don't want people chiming in with their opinions, if you want someone to just agree with everything you say start using chat gpt to vent it will tell you you're right all the time.

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Anonymous #18 4d

everything is about race in america

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Anonymous #21 4d

- in their racist mindsets to make you feel like less than.

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Co-opting a word you know nothing about is black fatigue which was a term coined by a black woman author about black people being exhausted with their counterparts in society always having something to say about them. Stop saying black fatigue to talk about exhaustion of people by in society about black people when it doesn’t mean that. The book is by Mary Frances Winter if you’d like to look it up.

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i see your point and you could choose to view the situation as one that had nothing to do with race but, that doesn't change the fact that this a very common experience for black women -- and it usually does have to do with our race. i also hate the entire concept of other races experiencing "black fatigue." it's racist and it's disgusting that it's become such a mainstream thing to talk about feeling.

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Anonymous #21 4d

Unfortunately

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Anonymous #25 4d

Thank you sweets 🩷

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Anonymous #17 4d

I’m gonna start saying this😂😂

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Anonymous #29 4d

You clearly do.

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You’re a fucking weirdo. Posting your child on Yikyak to prove a point is pathetic.

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Anonymous #20 4d

No he wasn’t being nice. In another thread he mentioned “black fatigue.” He has certain opinions that are influencing his reaction to this post and he needs to stfu.

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Anonymous #30 4d

And again, I’m sorry that happened and I wish you the best. Never do all of this for a man unless he does as much for you, and even then be vigilant. Wishing you all the best. ❤️❤️

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Anonymous #33 4d

Thank you this means a lot 🩷

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Anonymous #21 4d

Thank you soo much sweets. This means a lot to me during hard times and I appreciate you for not only understanding, but explaining in a way that other people can understand from my perspective as a woman of color.

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Anonymous #21 4d

I see now, I suppose my inherent bias is thinking men are pigheaded rather than some holding some deep-seated or overt racial transgression, I still have a lot to learn.

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Anonymous #36 4d

Well I’m just so glad and happy this shows YOU why he chose her, because that was so important to me. Thank you random person, your opinion matters so much to me.

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Anonymous OP 4d

It’s yik yak honey take this down if your going to be pressed 😂

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Anonymous #21 4d

Mind you, there’s no context and your already yelling racist 😭😭🙏🙏 we’re doomed

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Anonymous #36 4d

“It’s yik yak so that means I’m going to unkindly express an opinion to someone who’s clearly going through it”. It being an anonymous app does not justify being a rude person, and I stand by that.

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Anonymous #30 4d

How do I care?

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Anonymous OP 4d

Read all the comments and this one pmo! You calling him weird for pointing out another trait that could be high on the preference list? His question is smart. I’m sorry but white girls ain’t that special that they taking all the men. Women like you are pushing the men away with this bullshit

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Anonymous #1 4d

Best comment in the whole section…body type preference comes way before skin preference for most people. Body, height, eyes, teeth, sense of humor, attitude, interests… literally dgaf about your skin this race thing is so out of control and irritating. Definitely a turn off.

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You’re the one who posted a picture of your wife and child on my post about getting heartbroken. You’re very strange.

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Weird ass grown man. Posting your child under a post of a random person talking about raw sex. Even worse of you.

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Anonymous #38 4d

that's YOUR opinion! you being blind to the world we live in doesn't give you the right to deny the prejudices that many people face in society.

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You put yourself on blast by being a straight up weirdo 💀 nothing you say under this post is valid imo. Find someone else to bother.

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Oh you’re still going

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Anonymous #3 4d

Tbf this is a confession, people are allowed to be frustrated

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Anonymous #37 4d

who are you referring to as freaks

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Anonymous #45 4d

Love my fellow mixed beauties 🩷

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Anonymous #43 4d

This is a sweet way to put it 🥹

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Anonymous #43 4d

I don’t want it to work, he’s shown his true colors. It just deeply hurt me in a way that has affected me so much.

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Anonymous OP 4d

What’s your insta?

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Anonymous #45 4d

and aye, idc who says what you mixed gals are baddies

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Anonymous #11 4d

you’re just a brown seething that a white fit didn’t pick you lol

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Anonymous #4 4d

what a coward you are so eager to throw your race under the bus if it means getting a little attention

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Anonymous #46 3d

#46 you alright, #4 basically wrote a love letter about himself didn’t downplay his race once.

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Anonymous #3 3d

Exactly, people just love to yell racist whereas if the boy was truly racist he wouldn’t have ever entertained being with a mixed girl to begin with.

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Anonymous #32 3d

Just "get over" racism... wow, we got a real Einstein here! Why don't all of us minorities just GET OVER discrimination! It's so easy!

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Anonymous #49 3d

Oh cry us a fucking river #49. #32 is absolutely right. Their whole point is to stop wasting your time focus and energy on people that don’t like you and stressing yourself out over things you can’t change. Focus on the people that actually do like you.

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Anonymous #2 3d

You're telling me to not focus on people who dont like me... by saying it rudely in a way that clearly shows you don't like me? Surely you see the hypocrisy in that. You guys are so unempathetic and weird.

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Anonymous #49 3d

Is it really rude to tell you to focus on people that actually like you instead of whining about people who don’t?

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Anonymous #49 3d

Cry about it if a dude posted this he’d get flamed no one cares more just because you’re a woman

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Anonymous #49 3d

"racism" is not finding certain people attractive now? am i racist because i don't like people who do plastic surgery? cuz fuck that i'd prefer not.

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Anonymous #33 3d

he's deficient because he's not attracted to OP 😂 maybe she's just not as funny or they don't get along as well as the other girl

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Anonymous #17 3d

not really, i'm much shorter than the average american laying down

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