
I am a virgin by choice. None of that goes to my mind. I want a real relationship of caring and growing together. Nothing is worth that ballon pop of being laid. Much higher pleasure is gained when it’s both partners that care, know each others emotions, and their senses so they basically synch when intimate.
I am the same way. I just don’t want sex that has no connection to it. I don’t do hookups. Just not my thing. I know I would hate it. Plus my sex drive is low due to my meds, so I’d want someone who can accept that. And those meds make me unable to orgasm, so if I have sex it won’t be for pleasure, it’ll be for expressing my love for my partner