Anonymous #1 23h

Sometimes the older men act like children

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Anonymous #1 23h

because a 29 year old man liking someone my age is weird, there’s a reason they go after younger girls and not women their age

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Anonymous #3 23h

Yeah ok. I just ended a relationship with a woman a year older than me. When I'm out I'll frequently see attractive women some of which are like 19-23... once I find out their age I back off because I know about the social stigma. I don't think it's creepy or unhealthy to be attracted to attractive women. I do think it's unhealthy to risk making people feel uncomfortable, especially if I'm looking for something romantic and meaningful

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Anonymous #1 23h

dude the “social stigma” shouldn’t be the reason you back off, you should back off because women that young are at different life stages and the power imbalance, also they’re just not as mature and are still growing into themselves, you should know and understand that as a grown adult this is so sad

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Anonymous #3 23h

Yeah none of those reasons make sense to me personally. • Still growing into themselves, if they don't want to date thats fine • Different stage of life, not sure why that is bad • Power imbalance, not sure how you are measuring power or why it should be balanced as long as intentions are good • Not as mature, Some people will or wont have my values, maturity is less relevant than values

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Anonymous #1 22h

People use “man” to refer to a good guy and “boy” to refer to shitty men, it’s less an age thing and more a “how good a man” he is thing

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Anonymous #4 22h

YAS

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Anonymous #1 20h

I’m a bi woman, and I’ll date older women but not older men. Would never date someone under 20 because I remember how I was at 18, which was innocent and vulnerable. I see older men try to date my age range and think they’re probably predators, not worth the benefit of a doubt.

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Anonymous #6 15h

Ew what

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Anonymous #6 9h

It’s always the people who sign up to work with kids

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