
if you’re gonna actually look into finding one, please understand that “rich old guy lavishes you with gifts and money just because he’s so charmed by you”-type situations are extremely rare the vast majority of men advertising themselves as sugar daddies are also just scammers who say they’ll pay you once you’ve gotten to know each other, but then ghost you once they’ve wasted your time baiting you into flirting with them
sugaring is a job. it’s like being an escort except you’re restricted to just one client, who expects you to drop everything and give him your body whenever he demands it, who you’re always obligated to text back right away, or else you lose your income. unlike being an escort, he holds All the power in this dynamic. it’s not aspirational