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What’s wrong with all these people wanting open relationships? Can’t you still stick to one person?
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Anonymous 1w

u don’t need to be in relationship if u can’t commit to one person without wanting to be with other people. it’s stupid

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Anonymous 1w

Every person and every relationship is different, as long as everyone’s open about what they want what’s the issue?

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Anonymous 1w

Honestly some people just can’t. And it’s better to be up front about wanting an open relationship than lying to your partner and cheating or resenting them

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Anonymous 1w

I personally don’t get the point of being in a relationship at all if it’ll be open. Like yall can just keep fucking whoever you want and stay single? But that’s not my problem. I would never be in one and will be ending any relationship where my partner suggests it because I consider it disrespectful. Plus I feel like if you get to the point where you’re “thinking” about fucking other people, you’re probably already doing it.

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Anonymous 1w

Why does proof of my love for someone have to be in the form of exclusivity? If I can meet all their needs what’s the problem?

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Anonymous 1w

Naw

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Because it’s called a couple for a reason. Because it’s two.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Okay and some couples want to open their relationship to other people sometimes, and some relationships involve three or more people, if everyone’s on the same page why does it matter to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Ehhhh just seems greedy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s still 2 people, but the 2 is a romantic exclusion only

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s not greedy it’s just a different form of personal connection lol. There are plenty of fish in the sea I promise they’re not all being taken by people in open and poly relationships

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

I feel like it’s the opposite of greedy if you’re willing to let your partner fuck other people also LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

If you’re with a person that wants to fuck other people as well, then your proof of love does not need to be in the form of exclusivity. For OP and the rest of us that are monogamous, it is impossible to meet our needs. Fundamentally incompatible.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1w

Sure, but OP is asking what’s wrong with people who aren’t like you, implying there’s anything wrong with

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1w

I do think there’s something wrong with it so I’m not the person to address that question. My comment was responding to your “meeting their needs”.

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