Anonymous #1 22h

Bro we been cracking she just wants to not crack rn but we had a foreplay sesh this morning so technically if I was a lesbian I’d say we cracked

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Anonymous beestboy 22h

lmfao

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Anonymous #2 21h

I get what you’re saying, that’s not the exact scenario that’s happening right now. Everything’s copacetic, and it’s not like we’re not having sex cuz we’re beefing or anything like that. It’s just something going on separately. But, when you say sometimes the aftercare lasts a while, do you mean it can last days? That’s not this current situation but I’m curious on what you mean by that exactly

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Anonymous beestboy 21h

I don’t mean beefing at all, just sometimes you may not be looking for the same benefits. Aftercare may last days, sometimes you have sex and an outside situation may happen that makes the sex more taxing. Sometimes additional care is needed. At times after care may just mean talking and creating a bond with someone to deepen the relationship. it truly depends

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Anonymous #2 21h

I’m cool with all of that, my thing is where do we draw the line where it becomes bf/gf duty? I love Emotionally connecting and aftercare and all that and usually idc to be in a relationship, however this I’m really enjoying and it’s ending in me wanting that. With my fwbs usually I’m only willing to give up so much of my time and attention and emotional capacity, which is still a whopping amount. This however feels like so much more, and in a good way that I want to continue, but deeper

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Anonymous beestboy 21h

sorry for shitty typing and grammar walking to class i think bf/gf duty is more dates, paying for a nice meal, making an effort to remember family members and niche details. Such as knowing her fav childhood youtuber. fwb duty is including them in the doordash order and saying you got it bc you were ordering anyways, picking up a kitkat bar because you know it’s their favorite, or a water bottle. Accidentally remembering things and making a noticeable effort bc you’re sharing a bed with them.

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Anonymous #2 21h

No that is all great stuff actually that was a great synopsis. I can see that. I feel like I do that whole thing from dates to details to small gifts. I think that’s my fault tho so maybe im doing too much . But yeah I hope u have a great class gang

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Anonymous beestboy 21h

I think going out every so often is okay, being a gentleman is important. But if you’re spending like $50 on a fwb, you are being a very nice person and it is likely that the girl is gonna want more from you because you are a nice person. If you have a desire in order to treat a girl well, have an emotional relationship, listen to her and spoil her. You may actually be a lot more ready for a relationship than you thought you were. But never be ashamed of being a gentleman!!

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