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Anonymous #3 1d

Yea we weren’t even talking like 2 weeks ago?!

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Anonymous #1 1d

Men are kinda nasty tbh and bacteria build up and god knows what. I wasn’t going to sleep with someone knowing that

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What if he’s a really neat and tidy boi though? 🥺

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I was referring to myself coz now I’m worried my collection would disgust or creep someone out 👉👈

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Anonymous OP 1d

The added context is wild that seems more important than him having sex toy 😭😭

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Anonymous OP 1d

I mean it’s weird that he talked about it, especially that early. That is exclusively the issue for me though. I have a toy collection, why would I begrudge a dude one?

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Anonymous #6 1d

Exactly! Like my thoughts VERBATIM. Preach the sex positivity sis. Nothing is hotter than a women who's not only accepting but confident in her own sexuality.

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Anonymous #4 22h

Collection????? Bro 😭

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Anonymous #4 16h

Yea that would

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Anonymous #4 16h

Bros asking if the girl posting about how disgusting a guy having a sex toy is would think it would be weird to have a collection. I don't agree with her opinion but what did you expect 😭

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Anonymous #6 16h

I don’t use sex toys so I don’t want my man to simple. Porn culture has got a LOT of you wired weird and can’t get aroused without help. I don’t want that struggle in the bedroom 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous OP 15h

Surveys have shown men who watch porn are more successful about predicting a women's sexual preferences in bed. Highly recommend reading this article, it's written by a woman and very easy to digest, and follow. https://aella.substack.com/p/is-porn-misleading-men

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Anonymous #5 15h

No thanks I’ll pass I could care less about a survey when I’ve experienced it first hand

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Anonymous OP 15h

The author of the study is incredibly intelligent and she does amazing work. It's the largest study/survey ever done of its kind I believe. I'm really sorry you've had negative experiences but purposefully choosing to ignore the data so you can generalize men is not it :/ I hope you get better experiences in the future!

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Anonymous #5 15h

It’s not generalizing I said I PER MY PREFERENCE I don’t use toys SO I DONT WANT A MAN IM WITH TO

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Anonymous OP 15h

That's totally valid but that's not what I was referring to. Your preferences are obviously super valid

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Anonymous #5 14h

I thank you for your article & look forward to reading it! Op you sound younger than me and it’s absolutely your prerogative to not go out with someone who watches porn if you don’t want to, but I’d also like to give you another perspective: the manosphere has a segment of men extremely anti-porn & not all of them are trying to “go their own way”. It sounds like you need to focus on a man that is communicative and focused on your needs, and from my own perspective some of them have toys…

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Anonymous #6 14h

And some of them also enjoy watching porn. What a communicative man does enjoy is getting their partner off. They want to know what you like and are… enthusiastic about making it happen. Some of them also read romance novels rather than watching a scene they like the build up of the relationship paired with the erotica (those tend to get more common as you get older). All I’m saying is, just not having a man who watches porn or has any toys doesn’t mean he’ll care about your pleasure.

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Anonymous #6 14h

What you described about looking at things and communicating our likes through shared erotica, written or visual has been exactly something that's happened to me in former relationships to communicate desires, like for example "I want to show you this position" simple stuff, it can be really fun to talk and try together. Sometimes they'll mention some spicy role play stuff from their book and we communicate about that for what they want to try. I've absolutely used this communication strategy!

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Anonymous #6 13h

Girl I ain’t ready all that. Preach it to the choir

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Anonymous OP 13h

Your loss 🤷‍♀️ hope you don’t fuck a meninist.

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