Could be a few reasons: could be as simple as not wanting to get you pregnant or wanting to explore with you, hell some guys just want to be where they think no guy has already been before. Though I don’t know you so I wouldn’t know why you personally have that problem with the ppl you sleep with but I will say this: Kegels are usually the answer regardless of your situation down there.

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I really wouldn’t take that personally. Men like the taboo nature and trying something new. It’s not a reflection on you. Usually a woman’s pussy is overall tighter anyway. Embrace it and maybe you’ll enjoy the experience a lot more than you think.

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