We have been together for years and live together, talking about getting married. But I feel so heartbroken after tonight… I feel sick, it hurts because I love them so much and seeing them rip themself to shreds is killing me. I want nothing more than to be there for when it gets better, but they refuse help at every turn and they can’t get better without it. I do what I can but I’m no professional. God I feel so sick
Honestly I have been in a similar situation, it’s not worth it, they’re not gonna get any better, and they’re just going to keep dragging you down with them, sometimes they need a kick to go find that help and leaving them can be that kick, nothing is stopping you guys from getting back together later except for their emotional maturity