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Had the really hard realization that I can’t keep doing my relationship the way it’s been… they need professional help, in the past they’ve brushed off my requests they get it, but I can’t be with someone who can’t help themself. It hurts.
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Anonymous 9w

We have been together for years and live together, talking about getting married. But I feel so heartbroken after tonight… I feel sick, it hurts because I love them so much and seeing them rip themself to shreds is killing me. I want nothing more than to be there for when it gets better, but they refuse help at every turn and they can’t get better without it. I do what I can but I’m no professional. God I feel so sick

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Anonymous 9w

Wow grateful for stumbling on this. I definitely felt like I got dragged down into depression because they won’t take any action to help themselves and solely relied on me

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Anonymous 9w

I’ve been in a similar position. The best thing to do is what’s best for yourself. It’s not worth it in the long run if they’re affecting your life and your well being this much

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I’m just glad they’re asleep again.. I don’t think I can get back to sleep

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Honestly I have been in a similar situation, it’s not worth it, they’re not gonna get any better, and they’re just going to keep dragging you down with them, sometimes they need a kick to go find that help and leaving them can be that kick, nothing is stopping you guys from getting back together later except for their emotional maturity

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