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i have the BIGGEST crush on my best friend. we’ve been friends for 6+ years, but idk if he feels the same way…we’re both single!!! upvote if i should ask him out
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Anonymous 23h

You have to weigh if it’s worth losing a friend. I only say cause I had something similar and lost a good friend

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Anonymous 22h

You gotta pitch it as a hypothetical and then see what happens from there

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Anonymous 21h

Not that you’re looking for advice but maybe just prepare yourself for him saying he doesn’t like you back. I once lost my very good friend because he said he had feelings and couldn’t continue our friendship because I didn’t return them. I completely understand that he needed space in order to move on but it was sad to loose such a good friend

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Anonymous 22h

Tricky road be careful

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Anonymous 12h

I went for it. We’ve been together for almost two years now

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Anonymous 21h

Are you a girl or both guys?

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Anonymous 23h

Downvote

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Anonymous 13h

Do it

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Anonymous 22h

As a straight guy. Assuming your friend is also a straight guy, chances are he likes you back. As rough as this is, guys don’t tend to try to closely befriend a girl unless there’s some level of alterior motive.

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Anonymous 20h

You should do the electric love kiss my best friend challenge

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 23h

i’m sorry! i feel like he lowkey flirts with me too but i can’t tell cause we’ve been friends so long

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

You can have an honest conversation about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 22h

This is true but it could also not be. I’m friends with plenty of girls and I’ve got no ulterior motive lol. And I’m straight. The best one could be that he’d like to be hooked up with a homegirl here and there but it’s been 6+ years feelings probably are not there. Long game to play ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17h

This makes it obvious 😭 “how would you feel if *twirls hair* *bats eyelashes* we were dating?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 14h

No. Both of you need to get a little tipsy together (you less) and you just pose it as a spontaneous on the dot idea. Like maybe what if we dated or what would it be like if we dated or do you ever wonder what it would be like for us to date?? See how the idea is received then a few days later if you feel it was positive shoot for it. Love is risking everything even if it could all disappear if it went wrong. Best of luck.

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