
Well I’m saying telling a guy to wear a weird outfit to fulfill your sexual fantasies is as weird as saying “take off your top” or “you would look better in a bikini.” It doesn’t matter what the clothes are, it’s the fact that they’re telling him to do that that makes it gross. Why are you defending them so hard?? 🤮
yeah it would be harassment, not assault, but also with just one comment online it doesn't actually mean something unless they're actively trying to seriously force him into doing things he doesn't wanna do. at the moment they have plausible deniability (as seen by your argument already), and since it's just one fairly tame comment, no one would call it harassment (regardless of gender in this specific scenario)