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I’m only now realizing the ways my first ex and most recent ex really fucked me up. any advice so I don’t carry it into something new with a guy I actually really like?
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Anonymous 4w

I'm here if you want to vent, hit my dms ♥️ (just a heads up I am a guy)

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Anonymous 4w

take as long as you need to heal, and recognize that it’s not a linear process, therapy is also a possible positive if that’s something you have access to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

yes I love my therapist he’s the best :) I go twice a week! I just might need more time and don’t want the guy to be hurt or frustrated by that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

understood, you’ll know when you’re ready after a while. there will be new things to adjust but keep open communication and the right person will keep pace with it :) best of luck to you!!

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