Like yeah, but this would be like if someone is screaming their head off for having a finger sawed off with a butter knife, and someone else is having their arm chopped off the same way. Both of them are going to be utterly miserable, and in severe pain. You wouldn’t tell the guy losing a finger that he should stop crying. And people seem to LOVE to do this with mental health too. Like yeah, I wasn’t A Child Called It, but that doesn’t mean my childhood trauma didn’t cause me severe issues.