Anonymous #1 22h

Tbh she posted about being miserable and we texted about her being stuck in the apartment w/ him so I was offering for her to come stay at mine & make her food and put a movie on together. I also told her I wouldn’t touch her unless she touched me first (xD) I did also make a comment ab how short she was and how that’s my ideal so idk she still talks to me but she seems to have an attitude.

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Anonymous #1 22h

I hope she doesn’t report me, I have been writing her an apology message but this always seems to just be my luck with women 😞 I’ve never had a real gf outside of hookups & then they usually start ghosting me.

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Anonymous OP 22h

yeah you need to slow your roll there. give her time and space and do NOT attempt to reach out unless she contacts you first. if you can’t maintain a professional working relationship together, then it may be time to discuss it in person since that prioritizes itself over any personal relationship. DONT TEXT!!!!! i cannot stress that enough, even if it’s more comfortable that way. admit your mistakes, apologize to her, recognize the impact of your actions, ask how to more healthily move forward.

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Anonymous OP 22h

your past relationships (or situationships) have no consequence on this one, and aren’t an excuse to behave out of line. if and when you get a chance to speak, LISTEN to what SHE says, and don’t enter into the conversation with assumptions about what qualifies as inappropriate, she will be the one setting boundaries now and you will have to adhere to them if you want to maintain any sort of positive relationship moving forward (not romantic but relationship in general)

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Anonymous #2 22h

I don’t really care it’s only retail I’m not using my qual I got fired from my last job bc I hated it and didn’t show up.

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Anonymous #1 22h

Tbh I don’t really care if I get fired for this if there’s even a little a chance I get a real relationship out of this. I’m sick of being alone, I did briefly mention today that I was talking to a new girl on Snapchat and she was really cute and she just laughed and walked away and ignored me for the rest of the day. Thinking back some of the gifts I got her had pictures of anime girls that were a little bit suggestive & idk if she’s into that.

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Anonymous #1 22h

I did also tell her I struggle with relationships and gave her details of my childhood abuse & how I distrust women but she seemed different and like someone I would really love to get to know

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Anonymous OP 22h

and do you care about her personal feelings in the slightest? because ignoring clear signs she’s showing of disinterest is simply predatory, and there’s really not another interpretation. furthermore, think of how having two jobs back to back that you were fired from on your resume will appear for future applications when they call your recent employers and ask what on what grounds you were dismissed. like is chasing this person (whom you shouldn’t be) truly worth jeopardizing your future career

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Anonymous OP 22h

let alone your morals and conscious concerning her mental safety/comfort when entering into the work place. like this isn’t just 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 place of employment, it’s a business that you’re supposed to be responsible for managing. that includes maintaining a positive, healthy, and welcoming atmosphere for your employees.

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Anonymous #1 22h

I know but god you don’t know how hot she is and how our company issue pants hug her butt so tight, long black hair, tats, piercings and big boobs.. Just.. 🤤

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Anonymous OP 22h

alr i give up, have fun getting fired.

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Anonymous #1 22h

I’m doing my best to keep my distance but I’m ngl there’s times at work I see her bending over to work a pallet and 😮‍💨 I have to go to the toilet and readjust myself. I also get so flustered around her. I just can’t help it lol and ofc I just want her to be happy and to be kind. I’ve brought her Starbucks for lunch even on my days off before bc I know what time she takes her breaks lol

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