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Sometimes I think abt my ex and I feel guilty for it, I have a bf
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Anonymous 23h

Girl bye you’re fine. You can think about other people while in a relationship

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Anonymous 23h

then you should take a step back and reevaluate yourself cuz that’s just a dick move, acting like a goddamn guy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 23h

Reminiscing of past sexual encounters and relationships is normal to u?😭 sure u can think of it, don’t make it right lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

I’m not reminiscing of sexual encounters, it was a fucked up relationship and it’s sorta hard to get over when someone was a drug addict relying on you to get them better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Alright and what do I do other than tell my bf abt that I think abt my ex sometimes? Which I already have? He knows about how shitty of a relationship it was. It’s not like it’s an easy thing to just poof forget

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

Oh yeah because I totally knew all of that information 😭 context is a wonderful thing yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

I think you’re just a bitch lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Yeah I’m aware? You realize you also assumed right

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Ofc there’s nuance and context to everything. But your judgements are passed on initial statements. Rookie

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

If you feel guilty for it and it’s enough to make an entire post about it I feel that maybe you’ve been thinking about him too often lately. it’s not a “bad thing” to think about, but I feel like you just have to accept that it’s in the past and it’s up to him to continue to get better. use that experience as a reflection of yourself being a caring person and doing what you could do. I’m glad your bf is understanding about it and I’m sorry for the situation you had to go through

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

and im sorry for assuming too, I see a lot of gross things on here and jumped at you which wasn’t fair to you

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