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I feel like I’m sounding selfish so I apologize about this, I’ve been on tinder/Hinge for well over a 6 months as a guy it makes me wonder if there’s something genuinely wrong with me that people don’t find me attractive or what? I’m 21 and nottheworst :(
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Anonymous 19h

As a woman, I feel the exact same quite frequently. I’m not super hot, but I feel like I’m decently pretty? I rarely got likes and it definitely takes a hit at my confidence though. I’ve deleted the apps at this point, it’s just not worth it for me. Hoping in-person dating is better. Whatever’s meant to be will be, I guess!

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Anonymous 23h

There are a lot more guys than girls on the platform. The algorithm doesn’t even rly show you if you’re not pretty hot, and if ppl have the choice they’re gonna spend more time with the rly hot ppl. You’re probably just an average or even moderately good looking dude if you take care of yourself and unfortunately viewing the apps as reality. Go talk to ppl irl, more success and frankly better experience there

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Anonymous 21h

I mean I feel pretty and as a gal the only guys who like my profile are… uncomfortable looking. And I might get a like a week on hinge. Dating apps suck but I’m casting my net wide

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Anonymous 23h

Wish you could type more on here I sound like a douch

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Gotcha! I appreciate the feedback and it totally makes sense:)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

You don’t sound like a douche at all, be kind to yourself :)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 17h

I’m 100% rooting for you, I’ve been thinking the same and maybe I should just do in person too I can tell by the way you text you sound like an amazing person! Wish you the best

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 17h

I feel the exact same way about hinge it also kinda likes to tease ya know? Wish you the best!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4h

Aww thank you! You do as well, you sound like such a sweetheart. Rooting for you too!! Good luck :)

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