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I have a boyfriend and he’s very loving and supportive and we have a really great relationship but I don’t feel sexually satisfied. We’ve talked about it and he tries but he struggles to meet my needs and I’m not sure what to do to help for either of us
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Anonymous 10w

Nontra temple in Western Michigan: https://nontratemple.com/

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Anonymous 10w

She’s really good at teaching men how to satisfy women if you’re not naturally good at it.

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Anonymous 10w

In a monogamous culture like ours, you can only have sex with one person. You can have alllllllll the friends you want, but you can only have sex with your boyfriend. Do you really want to stay in a situation where you aren't having any good sex at all?

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Anonymous 10w

most men aren’t great in bed in my experience. really bad actually. it’s easy to learn online so it’s just lack of trying. move on

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Anonymous 10w

I had a boyfriend like this. He was my best friend! I loved him, sweetest person I've ever met. The sex sucked. I said whatever, doesn't matter, and married him anyways. Ended in divorce 2 years later.

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Anonymous 10w

Get yourself a vibrator and move on

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Anonymous 10w

Bring up the idea of using sex toys. Don't jump to like a dildo or vibrator, Start small, like a vibrating cock ring. Something that you can phrase as being for the both of you guys (which it would be) That way his confidence shouldn't be too harmed or damaged by it. If stamina is an issue, I would recommend getting a cock ring that can stretch around his testicles. As it could help him hold on for a bit longer.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w

I’m ask a real question OP. When was the last time you emotionally connected with your boyfriend and felt seen?

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