Anonymous #3 2h

Simply gave her a full stop statement because she was making other people feel uncomfortable and I’m not afraid to put someone in their place.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1h

what was stopping you from taking the mature route and saying something like “can we not get into this right now? not everyone we’re hanging out with is comfortable discussing sexual stuff like this”, rather than resorting to slut-shaming? just makes you sound like you’re stuck in a high school mean girl mindset to sling insults rather than doing the work to actually communicate

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Anonymous #3 1h

You’re making assumptions about me without sitting at the table. I stand by what I said.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1h

no, I’m reacting to exactly the situation you described, trying to understand why you would choose hostility & publicly degrading another woman about her sexual behaviors. and why you then additionally posted about this interaction as if you thought you’d done something clever

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Anonymous #3 1h

Well you can take a step back and ask more questions without assuming certain details of me as a person. There are some people who never learned how to shut up and she belongs to that crowd. I was just the first to call her out on the ridiculous behavior she was having and she didn’t like that. Not my problem.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1h

again, all I’m reacting to is your own description of your own behavior, trying to understand why you think slut-shaming is the appropriate response to finding someone annoying. I don’t know you and I’m not here to make any assumptions about you, I was just saying how that Sounds from here. if there’s a detail I’m missing that justifies insulting a woman over her sexual behaviors, feel free to tell me what that is

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Anonymous wing_leader 1h

tbh at this distance I mostly had a positive opinion of you based on things I’ve seen you post before and because you’ve been kind and respectful with me in the past, so this caught me off guard

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Anonymous #3 1h

I haven’t brought up how it had relation to sexual behaviors, I brought how someone was making others feel uncomfortable and your mind went straight to sexual behaviors. I stand by what I said and you can have your opinion but it won’t change how I feel about my actions.

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Anonymous wing_leader 1h

well no, you said yourself that your comment was in response to her talking about how many men she pulls

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Anonymous wing_leader 1h

and your response was to equate that with her being “cheap”. there’s no world in which this exchange Isn’t you slut-shaming

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Anonymous #3 1h

Pulling men doesn’t always mean sexual more often than not it’s the attention the woman wants to feel desired.

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Anonymous #3 1h

Cheap meaning many quantity over quality. Any attention was a score for her, even if it was someone else’s boyfriend. Boundaries didn’t matter to her but they most certainly matter to me.

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