Confessions on Yik Yak | Realizing that the men I’m into will never be into someone like me. I worry that I’ll have to completely change the way I look if I want to attract them. I’m too much, I talk too much, I’m not chill. I just want to be married and happy, man :(

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Realizing that the men I’m into will never be into someone like me. I worry that I’ll have to completely change the way I look if I want to attract them. I’m too much, I talk too much, I’m not chill. I just want to be married and happy, man :(

Anonymous 20h

Sis never change for a guy and just be urself

Anonymous 14h

If you’re trying too hard to be chill then the people who would have loved your real/full excited talkative personality aren’t seeing it! U gotta be you for you, only way to find your true people

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Anonymous 20h

In a nutshell… I’m fat and not very conventionally attractive, but I am very much so into extremely conventionally attractive men. And every time I do start talking to someone, I feel like I can’t be chill enough to be someone’s “talking phase” or whatever. I enjoy long, deep conversations and I feel like my energy cannot be matched on that. I talk so much (clearly) and I get like five words in response.

Anonymous 20h

Just not built for modern dating, I guess.

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#2 20h

I know and I’m trying hard not to fall into that mindset, but it’s really tough. I don’t want to be alone forever.

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OP 20h

Same sis but now I accepted it's best to wait

Anonymous 19h

Realistically, I’m not sure. It’s a crapshoot. I think I’d still feel like my personality is too much, that I take things too seriously than most people are comfortable with. Though I do think it’d make my dating pool a little bigger and I’d have more confidence in myself, which would also boost my chances.