Because you’ve just arrived from the 18th century and haven’t yet heard it’s different now? Men are hella slut shamed. Sometimes worse than women. My last relationship ended bc after like half a year of trying, she couldn’t “forgive” that she wasn’t my first gf. Had close calls in the same genre too. Now I just tell every woman I’m a virgin & she’s the first woman I’ve ever met and it unironically works much better for everyone. Yall uno-reversed Victorian England on us somehow