that our tastes have evolved too far in different directions that we’ll have nothing in common. that we’ll never be able to kick it at someone’s place and enjoy it like the good ‘ol days, bc we’ve all become different people. it’ll be catchups, life updates, and not much else. these were some of the most important people in my life for years, so it’s hard to see these relationships just whither away. but I know/suppose it’s a natural progression and not inherently a bad thing.
but I wish there was something I could do to organically bring us closer together. idk maybe I’m just stuck on nostalgia. the hard truth is I fear my hs friends have moved on a lot more and have found joy in new circles & new cities and arent really thinking about this at all. i kind of was the same in college, but ive found my newgrad experience to be a lot lonelier so this is where my head is at atm..