Anonymous #1 3w

Crazy

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Anonymous #1 3w

But what if there are no signs and things are going well and then all of a sudden she says she’s not ready for a relationship

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Anonymous OP 3w

Then you should appreciate that she at least gave you the courtesy of telling you and respect it

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Anonymous #1 3w

I do its just tough yanno

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Anonymous OP 3w

Yuh . dont get stuck on someone who doesn’t want you fr!

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Anonymous #4 3w

I feel like any guy who’s so defensive and up in arms that he makes this post is a problem lol

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I’m a guy, and immediately I went “oh, this is messy” when I read the post lol

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Anonymous #2 3w

lol yeah he’s essentially saying “‘Men are kinda bad but women are bad too because they don’t want relationships with every single man!!!”

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Anonymous #2 3w

At this point it’s rage baiting cause who in their right mind would even argue about this

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Not really but ok

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Anonymous #1 3w

Both genders are bad in their own way

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Anonymous OP 3w

No, this post is showing how dangerous men can be. If y’all would stop seeing us as sexual objects or even objects in general we’d get somewhere. If men saw women just as HUMANS that just like them can change their minds, back track, decide that their partner isn’t who they want to be with than we’d all be much happier in life. This isn’t a WOMAN problem this is a MANS problem either being emotionally incompetent enough to hurt the woman that’s rejecting them.

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Anonymous #4 3w

This actually articulates why I won’t approach a woman who I’m attracted to. So often, guys create inherently dangerous and toxic situations whether knowingly or not, that it becomes a constant cycle of fear and anxiety for women to exist.

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Anonymous #4 3w

How was it my fault? I was a perfect gentleman to this girl she even admitted that to me and said it really is on her so its her problem not mine

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Anonymous #2 3w

Honestly, it’s the men claiming to be “nice guys” that are the most dangerous. If you’re a “nice guy” you wouldn’t have to say it. Nice guys only say that to women when their advances are being rejected.

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Anonymous #4 3w

Yeah that’s absolutely valid, it’s the overcompensation to the point of being obvious.

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Anonymous OP 3w

Dude you’re creepy as fuck. “I was a gentleman, she even said I was a gentleman.” You’re basically saying that you’re a “nice guy” and because you were nice you’re somehow entitled to her or whatever you think you should be getting. Woohoo you bought her dinner a few times so HAS to give you the time of the day… childish behavior 💀

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Anonymous #2 3w

OP just proved my point by saying “but I was a gentleman” like what does that even mean?

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Anonymous #4 3w

YEAH LMAO

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Anonymous #4 3w

That i treated her right and was genuinely a good guy cuz there are good guys out there. Not all guys are assholes yanno

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So you think every single guy is an asshole. Girl you must be toxic af whose had terrible relationships

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Anonymous OP 3w

No you’re not a bad guy you’re a “gentleman” 🥴

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Anonymous OP 3w

Brother. Reread what you’ve said

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Anonymous #4 3w

Ya i am a gentleman

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