Anonymous #1 1d

My older sister has always been the needy one and she still loves at home. I'm better most independent and shell be there till she's 30 prolly, not always the case.

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Anonymous #3 1d

Lives** Also why the downvotes just saying it's not a one size fits all fact?

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Anonymous #3 1d

The most independent** not better 😭 omg that's probably why the downvotes in not saying I'm better just a typo

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Anonymous #9 1d

Oh it happens. Not denying the mistreatment of boys, but contrary to popular belief girls are often conditioned to suppress their own feelings to prioritize the needs of others

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Anonymous #10 1d

her name is stella she literally went to my high school

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Anonymous #12 1d

No way thats insane…ive heard shes not a good person but idk I only know her thru mutual friends

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Anonymous #19 1d

Idk which crimes you’re looking at but they get heavier sentences for defending themselves against men. One girl was tried as an ADULT for killing her assailant and is still in prison

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Anonymous #16 1d

Both are true, does not mean they justify eachother!

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Anonymous #16 1d

just to add to this, a lot of psychologists are actually starting to think girls mature faster due to the stress in which society puts on them in order to: https://www.usnews.com/news/health-care-news/articles/2018-06-15/study-more-childhood-stress-leads-to-increase-in-brain-maturation

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Anonymous #21 1d

Oh wow I had no idea, thank you for this I will be reading!

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Anonymous #9 21h

Of course you don’t remember it, it didn’t affect you. We remember it because we lived it. Get a fucking grip

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Anonymous #8 20h

Do you have any evidence that men who kill their own abusers get less jail time than women?

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Anonymous #19 18h

Cops do love tits.

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Anonymous #3 17h

My older brother is like this. My mom goes too easy on him now cuz he’ll get loud and act restarted meanwhile I was supposed to be the youngest, coasting and relaxing, enjoying my 20s but I’m the only one with multiple brain cells I’m so tired having a special needs sibling that’s also older is so unfair

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Anonymous #1 16h

I’m the oldest with 3 younger brothers and I literally moved 1300 miles away from home by myself to study pre med at 18

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Anonymous #1 16h

As a boy with an older sister. I see it man, I’ve definitely been coddled a lot more than her, and she basically helped take care of me. I’m genuinely thankful for her, but I wish she didn’t have to do it, and could live her own life

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Anonymous #17 15h

what is that one regret number 17

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Anonymous #9 15h

I know you think you’re so special and this is only a problem for men, but girls and women are constantly mocked for crying too. Crying is seen as feminine, so girls are expected to do it, but that doesn’t mean it’s accepted. They are mocked FOR being ‘feminine’.

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Anonymous #17 15h

False information, all of our politicians are still in office. Go get a job.

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Anonymous #29 13h

Very interesting stance to take #29. Submit your brain to science after u die i bet they would find interesting things in there.

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Anonymous #21 12h

If ur gonna get information get it off of actually research, not the news

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Anonymous #8 10h

Yeah so you never responded but to answer your other question, about which crimes I’m looking at- all of them. https://www.ojp.gov/ncjrs/virtual-library/abstracts/gender-differences-sentencing-felony-offenders

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Anonymous #8 10h

Not only that, but there’s been outdated statistics that are maliciously cited by feminist groups that say women get longer sentences for killing their partners, but those disparities disappeared a long time ago

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Anonymous #11 10h

I’m not triggered but I don’t like when people spread misinformation. Men and boys get worse punishments than women throughout their entire lifetimes. For every Brock Turner who gets away with something heinous with a slap on the wrist, there are 5 women who get away with terrible crimes that you just don’t hear about

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Anonymous #19 10h

genuinely wondering what your source is for this, why do you think that?

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Anonymous #29 9h

i take your “basic human biology” and raise you advanced human psychology– the brain develops in response to its surroundings and is shaped by genetics, behavior, and environment, all of which affect each other. there’s no way to say their early maturation isn’t because of sociocultural effects and the way girls are treated in adolescence

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Anonymous #30 7h

i was trying to just find a quick reference for people to easily digest and further research themselves if they wanted to due to shorter attention spans in thus day but if you’re going to be a academic critic and say what sources count and what don’t, which professors will also use news articles and basic journalism resources for the same purpose of digestible chunks of knowledge since journalists do tend to do their research here’s actual studies about how trauma/stress affects young brains :)

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Anonymous #30 7h

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3601560/ https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-018-27439-5 https://academic.oup.com/cercor/article/25/6/1477/299218

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Anonymous #20 7h

of course! i also linked some research articles that study specifically the pattern of stress and how it affects and matures/ages young brains if you’re interested in the denser academics of it!

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