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My mom was a strict abusive parent I’m 22 with no kids. At some point you make your own decisions. It’s not the same for everyone but you can teach yourself. Why would I have a baby knowing I’m not stable and have mental issues? That’s just you being dumb
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Anonymous 3w

You can’t blame your parents for everything. You’re grown. It is their fault you’re not stable; it is their fault you lack skills that should have been taught as a child, but it’s up to you to change that. You keep making yourself the victim; of course you’ll be stuck. Doctors the library and a pamphlet are all resources to use for education, and the health department is free. I know because when I didn’t have Medicaid,

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I went straight to the health department. My mom didn’t teach me anything, but I’m grown, so it’s up to me to make a change so I can be better. You having a baby isn’t your parents fault that’s common sense. I don’t have support that means a kid is not the right thing to have. Stop raising kids in poverty and struggling environments.

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