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Real confession I don’t like how much I get off on the idea of cheating on my girlfriend. Something about the taboo of it but it seems so yucky
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Anonymous 8w

Don’t cheat, I commend your honesty and I want you and your girlfriend to be happy

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Anonymous 8w

“Cheating kink” isn’t a thing. That was popularized by cheaters who don’t want to take responsibility (at least in part) for their actions. OP do you think you could benefit from talking with a therapist about this?

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Anonymous 8w

When I was dating, I got up on the same idea of it. I thought I was a cuck for a while.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

- kink activist(?) ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I would never, I just consistently use the concept to get off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

real confession moment

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Oh most certainly. It isn’t really the cheating so much as it is having an aspect of my sexual life be socially taboo and rule breaking. It’s just that the clearest and easiest through line for that is cheating so I think about it to get off. I would never do anything physical, that would be horrific

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

I would def read the stainedglasswoman article “Beneath the surface” by Doc Impossible. It was the most liberating thing I’ve ever read when it comes to kink. For my above comment I was pointing out that its easier for most ppl to blame a kink than take responsibility. Doc Impossible talks about it there

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

For the record I’m 🏳️‍⚧️ and was read the article as part of my research, so it talks about identity a lot but it was also one of the best breakdowns of kink/sexual thoughts and why we have them, even without the gender stuff

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

I’m gonna dm you so I don’t send a bunch here!!

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