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It’s not me or anyone else’s fault that you don’t know your own boundaries. We aren’t mind readers and it’s unfair to blame someone just because we can’t read your mind. Find a way to communicate your needs.
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Anonymous 10w

Are you sure this person didn’t communicate with you and your just being insufferable?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yeah some people also just don't understand that certain boundaries should go without saying and love to use this excuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Or they so understand and that's why they love the "just communicate!!" Excuse so much

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

I like how they try to flip it as if your the irresponsible one 😂 “you don’t know your own boundaries”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yes, I’m sure. This person doesn’t know their own boundaries and expects everyone to read their mind. I know at least 5 other people that have had my same experience with this person. They are just extremely co dependent and blame everyone else for not being able to read their mind. It is your own responsibility to communicate your needs.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Y’all sound guilty as fuck.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

There can definitely be some nuance to these issues, if you think that’s the case don’t let me tell you otherwise 🤝

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Boundaries don’t go without saying. That’s some childish co dependent in recovery bullshit. It is your job as an adult to communicate. It is not like 100 peoples fault in your own damn community that you don’t know how to communicate

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