Confessions on Yik Yak | No bigger turn off to me than when I get talking to a guy & they start trying to steer the conversation towards sex in the first few messages & either ghost or get straight up nasty when I say I’m looking for something serious & don’t do hookups.

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Confessions 1d

No bigger turn off to me than when I get talking to a guy & they start trying to steer the conversation towards sex in the first few messages & either ghost or get straight up nasty when I say I’m looking for something serious & don’t do hookups.

Anonymous 1d

These are the only kinds of single guys I can find around me, it’s fucking nasty

Anonymous 1d

IRL dating even worse bc this man was staring at my covered body like it was a piece of meat the whole date & kept making comments about wanting to see what’s under my clothes & trying to rush finishing the meal to take me back to his place even though I told him multiple times before we met this was a first date thing & none of that was happening.

Anonymous 1d

Yikes the dating pool is scary, my boyfriend was too scared to hold my hand on our first date because he didn’t want to seem touchy if I wasn’t okay with excessive contact.

Anonymous

#1 1d

I know, it’s honestly disgusting to me. They’re only interested in the sex and I know if I was to give it up I’d just get ghosted after they got it. It’s even happened with guys I’ve met through my friend group. Literally 0 interest in hanging out, doing things together or getting to know me as a person. Only interested in me as something to have sex with.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Honestly it is. I’m giving up and taking a break for a while. Maybe someone respectful will find me.. Eventually.

Anonymous

OP 1d

I finally had a guy who seed interested in going out with me, as someone who’s always felt ugly it meant a lot. Planned to meet for coffee, he didn’t speak to me when we planned to meet, then after the planned meeting time he texted and said “sorry I forgot, anyways wanna hook up?”

Anonymous

#1 1d

Got mad at me when I said no (before we planned anything I made sure he knew I wasn’t into hookups and need to actually know and trust someone before I’m into them like that), sent me a bicep pic saying I’m missing out (I’m not even into muscles), and then I just stopped replying 😔

Anonymous

#1 23h

I’m so sorry. I had the craziest experience last year where I went on a date with this shy quiet guy from college & it went really well & he seemed really respectful & normal until later that night when he sent me a bunch of DPs out of the blue & a few weird paragraphs about his kinks (involving women’s pantyhose!) & stuff he wanted to do to me. When I told him that’s too much too fast for me he blocked me & ignores me every time he sees me irl now lmao.