Anonymous #1 1d

What’s sensual?

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Anonymous #2 1d

I’m not trying to manipulate at all, I just want him to want me

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Anonymous OP 22h

you can't make anyone do anything. he just doesn't like you and you can't change that

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Anonymous #3 21h

Okay that’s not true at all lol. He’s in love with me and I’m in love with him. Ik I can’t make him do anything, I’m just worried he hasn’t said yes to actual sec because I’m doing something wrong

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Anonymous #4 15h

I’m not trying to coerce him into anything, obviously I want him to freely consent.

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Anonymous OP 12h

Trying to influence the way someone thinks is coercion. Also, what you’re dealing with in this situation is called unrequited love.

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Anonymous #4 12h

It’s not unrequited love if he told me he loves me/has fallen in love with me first

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Anonymous OP 12h

that is not grounds to make him fuck you

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Anonymous #5 12h

I never ever said I was going to make him do anything for me. I was just worried there was something I was doing wrong and that’s why he hasn’t said yes the last couple times I’ve asked him

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Anonymous #4 11h

Omg y’all cannot be this dense. Op obviously isn’t coercing him she just doesn’t know what she’s doing. If he’s told her he’s in love with her and if he keeps coming back then I’d assume he’s pretty enthusiastically consenting

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Anonymous #6 11h

Thats worse!! not KNWOING SHES coercing.

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Anonymous OP 11h

How have you asked him/ why do you think it’s wrong?

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Anonymous #6 11h

Read the original post. How is he “enthusiastically consenting” when he literally said he’s uncomfortable. Hello?

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Anonymous OP 11h

I hate to break it to you, but if he actually loved you like he says he does, he wouldn’t feel uncomfortable having intimacy of any form.

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Anonymous #4 11h

Maybe I worded it badly but he said he’s uncomfortable “making” me have sex before I’m ready. It wasn’t like he’s uncomfortable having sex in general

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Anonymous #6 11h

He doesn’t love her. He’s breadcrumbing to keep her around for when he’s comfortable and simply leading her on. For her sake, she shouldn’t seek intimacy from him.

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Anonymous #6 11h

Tbh I’m really inexperienced and idk the normal pace for these sorta things so the first time I asked him if he was going to have sex with me was right after our first kiss and apparently that’s not the right time to ask. The second time was last week and we’d been doing stuff in bed together already but when I asked he said I’m not ready yet. Idk what I’m doing that’s wrong tho for him to not think I’m ready because I feel really ready so I must’ve worded something wrong

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Anonymous #4 11h

We’ve done like every other kind of intimacy already

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Anonymous OP 11h

Well that’s a really important clarification and that changes the dynamic entirely 😂 it seems he’s ready when you are then.

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Anonymous #4 11h

Omg noooo that’s not at all true! If he really loves her he’d feel uncomfortable pushing her to sex before she’s ready

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Anonymous OP 11h

Well, given the clarification you gave me earlier, the picture makes a lot more sense. He’s ready when you are then.

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Anonymous OP 11h

You didn’t do anything wrong. It really just sounds like he’s trying to go slow to ease you into it

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Anonymous #6 11h

I agree with this actually given the new clarification

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Anonymous OP 11h

Dw op, you worded it fine originally. That’s how I read it at first. People on this app just love to jump to attacking people

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