Anonymous #1 2w

I do go outside. I never smoke inside. And I own the house.

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Anonymous OP 2w

Doesn’t matter if you own the house, it’s still /their home/ too. You’re letting them live there/renting/whatever. As long as you’re going outside and it’s not impacting them then don’t worry about it

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Anonymous #1 2w

They get annoyed from the small of me when I come in. But they need to get over that.

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Anonymous OP 2w

I’d argue they don’t, actually. Weed fucking stinks. It’s smells disgusting, it lingers, clings to things, and it can be a trigger for migraines (of those who suffer). Esp if you live in a state where it’s illegal or they work in a job where use is prohibited (medical, law enforcement, government jobs) it can put them at risk. Just be considerate, and remember it ain’t called skunk for nothing

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Anonymous #1 2w

My house my rules

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Anonymous OP 2w

Then you’re choosing to be an asshole. And prioritize drug use over your friendships (big sign of addiction, btw). Which is fine, your choice, as long as you’re acknowledging your choice. Be an asshole about it all you want, you just have to own it

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Anonymous #1 2w

They don’t go by my rules. They don’t clean up after themselves. And leave mess I have to clean up after them. So they don’t respect my space either

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Anonymous OP 2w

So have a conversation about it instead of a passive aggressive game of tit for tat. You expect them to just magically start respecting the space when you’re also disrespecting them? Be an adult and talk about it.

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Anonymous #1 2w

Funny thing is I don’t say any of this to them, like we get on, but I really wanna do it but I can’t, so I just vent in here to get it off my chest, so instead I feel angry with out letting it out because I am to nice and don’t wanna hurt people. Spoke the truth probably because I’m High and I don’t give a fuck,

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Anonymous OP 2w

But you’re still avoiding the problem. It won’t change if you ignore it forever. You’ll keep avoiding, grow resentful of them, and destroy the friendship. Just talk to them, they’re your friend, after all

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