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Never being someone’s first choice hurts :/
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Anonymous 1w

Try not to beat yourself up about it. Peoples lineages have survived throughout generations due to many traits beyond immediate attractiveness. It’s a chore sometimes but honing social skills is valuable. People are attracted to passion, virtue, vitality, energy. You can find a path that suits you.

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Anonymous 5d

Honestly I feel like most of us have been there once. It sucks but you know my mom always gave good advice and she once said to me, “you can’t push a rope so why would you drag it somewhere when it was fine just where it was before you” A lot of situations you can’t push a rope unfortunately. I went through the same thing a couple years back and what hurts is he didn’t want to leave me behind either but still picked someone else. I believe in you!

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Anonymous 6d

Get better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

I agree. I have grown a lot and see the good I have, I am far from perfect but I do not hate myself. I just want to find someone that makes me feel sure that they are the one and makes me feel at home

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