Anonymous OP 1d

Yk vulnerability is like consent. You choose when to be vulnerable and disclose things and you’re also allowed to not. I’d be patient with your friend as they are going through a very hard time. I would recommend having a serious convo with them where you tell them to seek professional help due to their trauma

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Anonymous #2 1d

I tried to tell them they should go to a professional but they just have been really cagey about all the details. I don’t know it’s giving me weird ass vibes.

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Anonymous OP 1d

If you feel like you can not support your friend right now because how they are coping with their trauma, that’s okay and valid

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Anonymous #2 1d

Is it? I just feel bad because I don’t want to dislike her but she’s not being kind to me. And bringing it up without telling me what actually happened.

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Anonymous OP 1d

If you’re unhappy then you should leave. Maybe she’s only ok talking about certain parts of what happened but yk if she’s not being a good friend to you, it’s ok to communicate a boundary. Maybe space can help give perspective that she is really struggling and as a friend you can only do/ handle so much

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Anonymous #2 1d

Thank you that actually helps

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Anonymous OP 1d

Resenting a friend sucks :((

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Anonymous OP 1d

Wishing the best for you and her !

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