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trying to navigate the internet as a woman extremely critical of both kink and porn feels like playing ideological minesweeper
47 upvotes, 16 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Confessions. "trying to navigate the internet as a woman extremely critical of both kink and porn feels like playing ideological minesweeper"
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Anonymous 5d

one wrong move and im in enemy territory watching my fellow women defend strangulation during sex under the guise of being “pro kink”

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Anonymous 5d

Fuck porn but what’s wrong w kinks? If someone likes what they like what’s the issue

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Anonymous 5d

could just stop gaf how people get down but I get what u mean

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

why would i choose to be lazy w my personal politics like that. lmfao

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

cause ur obviously annoyed/uncomfortable by it, it’s not lazy to protect ur peace. u just like having something to complain about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

wow no one has ever told me that choosing to live ignorantly is blissful. does anyone else know this

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

yeah ofc but u seem to have a superiority complex to live up to so im guessing thats not an option for u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

“superiority complex” and it’s me being against the abuse & trafficking & sexual exploitation of women across the globe 😭 right

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

see how u just turned a post about kinks and porn into a completely different conversation to not only make ur post seem morally superior but also attack my values in one swoop? ofc I’m against that shit but that not what we were talking about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

its almost like i made the post and that’s exactly what i was talking about in the first place ? because i made the post ? about my own values and feelings ? because both porn and kink verifiably harm women en masse ?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

See kinks are such a slippery slope, and I should know I have some low-key alarming ass kinks. Especially as a woman you just sit there and think “…Did society brainwash me into being into this very clearly fucked shit- cuz this is very anti-woman stuff I’m into” But at the same time if it’s consensual and doesn’t involve kids or animals it’s generally fine ofc. But being self aware really makes you stress out lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 5d

ur genuinely thinking too deeply into it because you have a very heteronormative worldview

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

there is no such thing as thinking too deeply abt the nature of kink & kink culture … recognizing the heteropatriarchal influence on kink is like barely scratching the surface

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

you seem to assume hetero relationships with a sub woman and dom man as the default. this is why i dont fw straight people lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

im quite literally a lesbian

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5d

I’m into women and men 🧍🏾‍♀️ for my kinks I want to be the sub idc if my dom is male or female but regardless I still kink about it on a larger scale and society. You can never think too deeply about stuff that’s why philosophy and religion exist.

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